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Monthly archives for January, 2012

YOUTH BEAT: Getting by with a little help from my friends

Jan31
2012
Leave a Comment Written by Katherine Shan

This is one in a series of column by members of the Mayor’s Youth Advisory Committee.

As many might recall, the city experienced a fierce snowstorm on Jan. 13. Daily commutes that morning were difficult, and many were concerned, myself included.

I am a member of the city’s Mayor’s Youth Advisory Committee, and we had arranged for a discounted teen skating event to take place that evening. I worried the sudden snow would discourage people from attending. Luckily, by the time of the event, the roads had been neatly cleared and everything seemed to be perfect.

It wasn’t until I actually got to the arena that I realized there was still a problem: after six years of not being on ice, I couldn’t skate. Or perhaps it would be more accurate to say that I was afraid to.

I’ve always been afraid of the sensation of falling, the weightlessness you experience as gravity pulls you down without mercy. The reason that I stopped skating six years ago was that gliding on ice, quite frankly, made me insecure and fearful. Before coming to the arena I’d convinced myself that after six years I’d changed. But quickly I was proven wrong.

After 10 minutes of clinging onto the ledge desperately and dragging myself along, watching others soar around me with grace and ease, I stepped off the ice. I simply couldn’t do it. Also, I was freezing. But the only thing one can expect from life is the unexpected.

My friends, who did not tell me they were attending, arrived. So, it was under the influence of peer pressure that I, again, went onto the ice — I am sure that many have been talked into doing things by their friends that they themselves were not especially fond of.

At first it was fairly horrible. My friends would take hold of my hands, one on each side, and drag me along. I felt like the world was spinning around me, even though they claimed we were “barely moving.” I was shivering. My legs were locked; and I had no sense of balance. At one point someone pushed me from behind, causing me to burst into tears.

It was embarrassing, but I couldn’t stop. I felt awful. I knew my friends were just trying to show me how fun skating was, but I was legitimately petrified. I didn’t want them wasting their evening with someone as hopeless as me.

But they didn’t give up on me, no matter how unwilling I was, nor how high pitched my screams were. They stayed by my side and led me on with great patience. As I was crying, they huddled around me until I was ready to skate again. And bit by bit, I started lifting my skates, gaining balance and warming up. The hardest part was letting go of them, but they stayed by my side throughout all of it — one on the left, one on the right, and even one behind me so I wouldn’t get pushed again. They took away my insecurity.

By the end of the event, I was skating on my own and I was even enjoying it. I no longer felt cold, either. Miraculously, I didn’t even fall once — every time that I was in danger of it, they caught me. Every time.

So I want to thank all my friends for what they did for me. I want to thank them for supporting me, protecting me and being there for me. I want them to know that they didn’t simply teach me how to skate — they taught me how friendship can warm up even the coldest and darkest times.

I hope this column brings a smile to everyone’s face, and a memory to everyone’s heart. That night down at the rink is one I’ll treasure forever.

Posted in Youth Beat - Tagged article, Friends, Help, Youth Beat

YOUTH BEAT: Get moving with that list of self-improving goals

Jan31
2012
Leave a Comment Written by Michelle Kwan

This is one in a series of columns from members of the Niagara Falls Mayor’s Youth Advisory Committee.

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It’s that time of the year again. Time to make New Year’s resolutions.

The new year has come along, and while many of us have already given up on making 2012 resolutions, some have already placed the saying: “New year, new me” into our minds.

So, where did the idea of creating self-improving goals on the first day of the New Year originate? Approximately 4,000 years ago, the Babylonians brought up the idea of returning any borrowed farm equipment at the beginning of each year. Shortly after, the Romans decided to begin the new year by setting a goal to amass more stock than the previous year. This tradition soon emerged into our modern world.

Jan. 1 may be the excuse you, your peers and relatives make to finally begin working towards those lofty commitments to self betterment.

Statistics show only 8% of individuals are always successful in achieving their resolutions.

Among relatively successful resolutions are: exercising more, doing volunteer work, getting a better education, and saving money. Those goals which are given up on or abandoned include: quitting smoking, recovering from debt, finding a better job and learning a new language.

Why do 92% of individuals fail to keep faithful to their goals?

A majority of us make commitments that are unattainable. Learn to make sure you only promise to achieve as much as you can handle. Focus yourself on one or two specific and realistic goals. Once you get rid of those broad goals, such as losing weight, make a monthly plan. Set a specific target for yourself each month and intensify that target as each one is met. For example, a goal of losing five pounds for the first month may be obtained by visiting the gym twice a week and cutting down on the take-out food. From there, you may slowly add on to your plan. Go to the gym for an extra day, eliminate your carbonated beverage consumption, or limit the amount of unnecessary carbohydrates you eat.

In addition, notify your peers and relatives of your aspirations. Family members will be able to check up on your progress, and remind you to keep up with your efforts. Remember that you are making a lifestyle change, and those around you should be encouraging you and your decisions. A good support system will motivate you to work towards your goals.

Resolutions will only be worthwhile if you are actually motivated to accomplish them, so make it rewarding. Once you have attained that specific goal for the month, reward yourself with a special treat. Whether it be a day at the spa, tickets to a basketball game, or a new pair of shoes, it is always good to be rewarded for one’s hard work.

Finally, revisit your resolution every now and then. Are you getting off track? Identify what made you do so, and revise your resolution to get you back on track. Keeping a realistic pace and reminders of what needs to be accomplished, will keep you motivated throughout the year.

Have success in mind and don’t get discouraged by minor problems.

Remember that those who make new year’s resolutions are more likely to succeed with their goals, than those who don’t make goals. It’s the first step in taking initiative to create positive change in one’s life. But one must have will power and ambition in order to accomplish anything. So get moving with that list of self-improving goals you have, and expect success by the end of 2012.

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Michelle Kwan is a Grade 11 student from Westlane Secondary School

Posted in Youth Beat - Tagged article, Self Improving Goals, Youth Beat

YOUTH BEAT: Sleep is a necessity that is often overlooked by teenagers

Jan31
2012
Leave a Comment Written by Stephanie Philpott

No rest for the wicked, and apparently, no rest for today’s teenager.

A study conducted at Drexel University in Philadelphia has shown that the average amount of sleep for an adolescent is seven hours each night, considerably less than the needed eight to nine. This lack of sleep has many negative effects on today’s teenager including a difficulty waking up, constant drowsiness and irritability.

Long-term health effects such as obesity and diabetes have also been linked to sleep deprivation, resulting from an inability to regulate essential hormones. This takes place when the body is at rest. Also, those who do not get enough sleep may become insensitive to insulin, increasing chances of developing diabetes.

So what’s to blame for the lack of zzzs?

Many experts believe technological distractions are the culprit. The use of any light-emitting electronic device can counteract sleep-promoting hormones, promoting insomnia. Psychological stimulation before sleep may also contribute to lack of sleep and distraction. For example, a phone call or text before bed may make it more difficult to rest peacefully.

The goal of maintaining a well-balanced life is another large contributor to sleep depravation. Many students juggle sports, clubs, grades and a job, not to mention schoolwork. Teens, however, may be justified in complaining about homework. A study at the University of Michigan shows that children from the ages of 9 to 12 have received an increase of an hour per week in homework since 1981. The increase at the high school level is even greater. With all these activities, it is not a surprise sleep becomes less of a priority.

Add procrastination to the mix and things get a whole lot worse. On those days when students are entering class complaining as they polish off the last of a red bull, the reason for their sleep deprivation becomes obvious.

Although not much can be done about excessive homework, there are simple lifestyle changes the average teenager can make to find time for more sleep.

Firstly, doing homework as soon as possible after the school day allows for the best possibility of receiving down time later in the evening. Next, the removal of all electronic devices from the bedroom ensures a sleep uninterrupted by a text message or facebook notification.

When it comes to extracurricular activities, a smart choice is to take on only what you can handle. Though a few hours of volunteer work may not seem like much, you should to consider other commitments before agreeing to help out.

Unfortunately, there is not much that teenagers can do about work or family obligations. Most parents and employers will understand extenuating circumstances if you inform them of your dilemma.

On nights when you have a project and a major test to study for, don’t be afraid to ask for time off from work or if you can skip Sunday night dinner. Your parents and employers have been in your position, and they will understand.

There is one final barrier standing between teenagers and a good night’s sleep, and that barrier is nature. The biological clock in teenagers is set to produce sleep-inducing hormones at later times, resulting in an ideal schedule of staying up late and sleeping in. This natural pattern largely contradicts that of the average school schedule, resulting in an unsolvable problem, unless schools are willing to change.

Some have, and schools in the United States have implemented later starts to the school day. So far, the results are promising, but only time will tell if the programs will be adopted elsewhere.

The bottom line is that sleep is not an option. It’s a necessity and one that is greatly overlooked by today’s average teenager.

So, if you know a teenager who refuses to get out of bed this Christmas vacation, let them sleep in. It may be the only real rest they get until the distant March break.

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Stephanie Philpott is a Grade 10 student at A.N. Myer Secondary School

Posted in Youth Beat - Tagged article, Sleep, Youth Beat

YOUTH BEAT: Racism is an important issue that needs to be addressed

Jan31
2012
Leave a Comment Written by George Liu

This is a first in a series of columns from members of the Niagara Falls Mayor’s Youth Advisory Committee.

Earlier this month, an Elimination of Racism Day was held at the MacBain Community Centre, inspired by the United Nation’s official day.

The event was to share the youth view of racism and how it has affected their lives. There was dancing, music and art performances. After participating in the event, I was inspired by the number of people who dedicated their time and efforts to promote the elimination of racism and to spread awareness through the different mediums they chose.

A conversation cafe was held by students from Bock University and many stories were shared.

Racism is an important issue and affects everyone from different backgrounds and ethnicity.

Many do not even think what they are voicing is considered racist or may discriminate against another religion, ethnicity or group.

Many slang words or common phrases may be racist, where in popular media, music and other sources, teenagers and the general community may believe that it is normal or accepted to discriminate.

Racism ruins the society we live in, as it prevents members of the community from interacting and becoming friends.

It also causes people from other races and backgrounds to feel they are not accepted, This is unacceptable because everyone deserves to be included in our society and not be discriminated against.

Another common reason why racism is still an issue is because parents and adults may be promoting or showcasing racism as an acceptable practice.

Children do not understand racism. A white child won’t shun a black child just because of their skin color. Many children of difference ethnicity and religions do not understand the difference and see everyone as the same, someone who can play with them.

This is a great way to think, but it is often destroyed by adult influences on the child or some media that promotes racism.

Though racism is still an issue, today’s youth are learning to accept other religions. This is especially the case in Canada because our country is a multicultural country. The positive influence of distinct foods from a variety of countries to the sports and lifestyle brought here through immigration, show the importance of diversity and how being diverse should be appreciated by all.

George Liu is a Grade 11 student at Westlane Secondary School and is a member of the Niagara Falls Mayor’s Youth Advisory Committee.

Posted in Youth Beat - Tagged article, beat, niagara falls review, racism, youth

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